Here the free and quick method for burning a VIDEO_TS folder to a pure UDF DVD, so that it would play in regular DVD players, as well trigger DVD Player to start up automatically. Just open a Terminal Windows:
hdiutil makehybrid -udf -udf-volume-name DVD_NAME -o MYDVD.iso /parent/folder/VIDEO_TS
Make sure that /parent/folder/VIDEO_TS is the path to the folder containing the VIDEO_TS folder, not the VIDEO_TS folder itself. Once the .iso file has been created, drag this to Disk Utility and hit the Burn button.